This questioner says; what is your advice for a woman who does not want to conceive because of her fear of pain. She also claims that she is not prepared for it and that she’s still young.
The advice for the likes of this sister is that:
This statement is only due to the fear caused by Shaitan
(Devil), so she should not follow it nor answer to the likes of these whisperings and (false) alarms nor should she submit herself to this kind of things.
Why did she marry(unclear words)? When she does not want to bear a child and her husband wants children, then why did she marry?
“Allah (the exalted and greatest) in His mercy grants whomever He wishes male and whomever He wishes female”… till the end (of the verse).
From it (i.e. the reason for getting married), is to seek a child, Seek a child!
However, from the affairs the husband must take responsibility of is if the woman is ill for a reason or she is having a hindrance, preventing her from conception presently, it is compulsory to seek help with regards to that. And when she consults the Physicians, (I intend) Muslim Female Specialist Doctors, and they say that this pregnancy will harm and it will cause her damage, then there is no sinning (on her) if she abstains from pregnancy at the beginning (of her marriage) for a while. It will be delayed for a while, until when the hindrance is uplifted.
Generally from the angle of the basis or generality, it is impermissible for her to seek this type of thing if there is no presence of (authentic) reasons, different from preparedness. She is legal In Shaa Allah (by the will of Allah). She is ripe for marriage but not ripe for pregnancy? That is not correct!
However, if there are hindrances then she should delay it (i.e. the pregnancy), with the advice from those who are trusted with regards so their religion and honesty amongst the female doctor.
